Problem
starts when you kiss a girl you should peck, and peck the one you should kiss.
She starts misunderstanding your feelings towards her. That light graze on her
cheek, bore the sign of friendship and not the relationship you intended. Deep
inside you, you feel love and not infatuation for her, but the sign on her
cheek registers a different feeling in her mind.
Her
infatuation suddenly grows into love, after those wet pink lips caressed her
strawberry flavoured glossy lips. She begins to want more, though all you
intended was just a friendship teaser.
The
bigger problem starts when you provide a shoulder for her tears, when you
stroke her cheek, tracing lines of affection in a bid to console her. She finds
comfort in your warm broad arms, narrating to you how life has been unfair and
how she caught him cheating.
Unknowingly
to the both of you, the seed of love has started growing, and love germinates
quickly on the fertile soil of consolation. That moment when you dry her tears,
console her of the past, try to encourage her, you are not only planting the
seed of love but also watering it.
As
easy as it is for love to germinate on that soil of consolation, it is also the
easiest soil to shatter a loving heart. Don’t let her in when she has a broken
heart. Otherwise she would use you to forget the past, and sometimes when the
wound you came to treat has healed perfectly, her eyes opens to the reality
that she fell in love with the healing balm and not the healer: that she fell
in love with your consolation and not you.
If
you want to have her close, then don’t get so close, because if she should
Friend Zone you, it would b hard to convince her to come so close to you in
love. Both of you can do many amorous things, but she won’t fall in love with
you, because she sees you as a Bestie and at worse a brother. ***Meanwhile Sex
isn’t one of the amorous things.
If
you really want to date her, then don’t get too close, because Besties rarely
become Boy Friends.
DISCLAIMER:
This
piece was written from a personal view, and might not apply to all similar
cases as exemplified in the article. Number 6 mentality is always applicable in
every situation, as some theories stated above might not apply in your own
case, even though the maybe similar. Personality differs, but the theory above
states what happens in most cases.
***
It
was written in the Third Person "Masculine" Narrative and can as well apply, though
not exactly in the First Person Feminine Pronoun.
Augustus
Bill
©2015
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